Dirty (un)Sexy Politics

I was all set to write about Axl Rose’s bizarre letter to the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame today or maybe the “shocking” exit on American Idol, but then something else happened that I couldn’t resist putting my two cents into. And, warning, it’s political. Again. Can’t help it. These people are bringing it on themselves. (and don’t worry. Axl and Idol are on my ‘to do’ list tomorrow!)

Wednesday evening on Anderson Cooper (an S-Dizzle staple), Democratic strategist Hilary Rosen started a firestorm when she attacked Ann Romney by saying she was out of touch with modern women because she had never worked a day in her life.

Now, although I disagree with Rosen’s comments (seriously? raising 5 boys close in age ISN’T a full time job???), that wasn’t what bothered me.

It was the truly horrific comments that people felt the need to tweet after the whole debacle. (Thanks, Emily for bringing it to my attention).

A sampling of tweets (be aware, there’s some really gross and disgusting language. I’m not condoning and I think it’s deplorable)


First of all, I can’t think of a scenario when calling a woman a “stupid, ugly, cunt bitch” is appropriate. Secondly, I feel the need to remind everyone this is stemming from comments that Ann Romney didn’t even make! Someone (another woman, in fact) called her out on never having a “real job” and not understanding struggle because she comes from money. This isn’t some case when a candidate’s spouse shot off their mouth. This is the case of a woman being told that because she didn’t have a job outside the home, she couldn’t POSSIBLY understand what other women go through. But that’s not what drives me crazy.

It was the total classless and disgusting reaction of some on twitter. Honestly, how does calling the former First Lady of Massachusetts a worthless bitch add ANYTHING to the debate. Newsflash: it doesn’t. All it does it make you look stupid. And trashy.

At a time when the term “war on women” is being thrown around fast and loose (and as a woman, I’m not exactly sure who my nemesis is supposed to be these days), gross and ineffective “political” (I use the term VERY loosely) statements from the braintrust on twitter make you wonder who the real “enemy” is…and they aren’t Republicans or Democrats.

It’s the idiots on twitter (or Facebook, myspace, blogs…whatever) that are the real problem. It’s the people that call women “cunts”, “bitches” and to “shut your fucking mouth” from the comfort of their homes (more likely their mothers’ basements) without realizing just how destructive it is to refer to a woman—ANY woman— like that. THERE’S your problem. And it doesn’t come with an R or a D after their name. It comes with a @  BEFORE their name (or an anonymous handle like “FearlessWarrior” “HotDude8835” or “LivinInMomsBasement2353”).

I’m alllll about social media. I tweet. I Facebook. I pin. I blog. I foursquare. I’m always looking for the newest trinket or tool in new media. But I’m also all about using social media responsibly and effectively. And throwing around profanities and name-calling for no actual reason is not why social media was invented. Sure, I’ll mock contestants on American Idol. I’ll call Christina Aguilera a fool while watching the Voice. I’ll tweet mean things at Toronto Blue Jays players (come on, they’re from CANADA). But those are in jest and (what I hope) are funny. And I’m 110% sure the phrase “stupid bitch whore cunt” is nowhere to be found in my twittefeed. Mockery of the Real Housewives? Absolutely. Thinly (and not so thinly) veiled insults a the Cleveland Indians (and their opponents)? Without a doubt. But I’m also keenly aware of what I say and how I say it. And I would never cut down another woman for being wealthy or being a stay-at-home mother.

I also have to defend my girl Ann Romney (also referred to as “First Lady Barbie” or “Lovey Howell”…but all with affection!). So she didn’t work outside the home. Big deal. She raised five sons. I’ve babysat for families with TWO boys and I couldn’t wait to go home. I can’t imagine FIVE in the house—and she didn’t have the luxury of “going home.” Also, I have to take issue with statements that Ann Romney doesn’t know struggle. Fact check, people. She’s living with Multiple Sclerosis and is a Breast Cancer survivor. I think that qualifies as a struggle, no? So let’s recap: raised 5 boys while her husband worked (and it’s probably likely he worked insane hours when the boys were little), beat Breast Cancer, lives (and thrives!) with Multiple Sclerosis and made it through two Presidential campaigns. That’s pretty baller (in my opinion).

Regardless of your political opinion on Ann Romney, we can ALL agree to call the geniuses commenting above what they are: bullies. In an age where everyone is concerned about bullying, we shouldn’t just toss the idiots aside with a shrug, going “well that’s politics”—it shouldn’t have to be like that. I’m all for intelligent discussion and debate…but calling a candidate’s wife a “dumb bitch” isn’t exactly breaking a mental sweat, now is it. But it’s easier to hide behind a computer screen and call someone a “heartless whore cunt” than think of something substantial to say.

But I suppose on the opposite end, it IS how the Real Housewives make their living.


I watch tv like a Democrat?

I know I said I wouldn’t get political on this blog, but Entertainment Weekly posted this the other day. A list of the most/least popular shows amongst Republicans/Democrats.

And according to the list, I apparently watch television like a Democrat.

Even stranger, the shows that the Republicans really hate, I really love (hello! Bridezillas and My Fair Wedding?!?! WE owns my soul).

Just a sample: the top Democrat-lovin’ shows: 30 Rock, Parks & Rec, Daily Show & Colbert Reports, Modern Family, Cougar Town, the View (did you just see me cromit into the wastecan? I can’t help it. If someone mentions The View I have a very visceral reaction), It’s Always Sunny, and Glee

Sample of the GOP-lovin’ shows: Swamp Loggers, the Bachelor, Castle, Mythbusters, the Middle (which I love love love), Wheel of Fortune (really?), The Mentalist, NCIS (so thew new ’24’), and the Biggest Loser.

If you were to look at my DVR (well, the ones that I set. Not the ones Lee the D sets) and compare it to the EW list, you would suspect I was a super liberal Democrat. Parks & Rec! 30 Rock! Modern Family! It’s Always Sunny! Project Runway! Noticeably absent Swamp Loggers (seriously, what IS that show?), anything with Larry the Cable guy (remember this post in which I bemoan how unfunny Larry actually is?) and Dancing With The Stars. And, ok, there is more than a handful of Hawaii 5-0 and NCIS, but that’s ALLLLL Lee the D. Going by this list, he’d be a pretty typical Republican.

However, I do think this list MAY be a little flawed. I don’t think this really speaks to Democrats v. Republicans, but really older viewers v. younger viewers. I fear that the Democrats they spoke to were all under 35 and the Republicans they spoke to were all over 45. Wheel of Fortune? REALLY? I don’t know ANYONE under the age of 70 that watches the Wheel (and that includes Republicans).

While I don’t think this is a total example of media bias (make the Dems look cool while those loser-y Republicans look like lame-os), it does back points made that most media outlets want Republicans to be seen as out-of-touch, out-of-date, Middle America losers while the Democrats get to look like the hip, with-it, masters of all that is awesome. Most of the Republicans I know (and I do know a lot) would look at this list and laugh. “Do they REALLY think all of us sit around watching ‘The Wheel’ and Larry the Cable Guy” I imagine more than a few of them would say (including myself). I’m more likely to vote for Barak Obama than sit through an episode of Man v. Wild (or ANYTHING with Larry the Cable Guy). I love Liz Lemon and her weird co-workers on 30 Rock. I want to go to Paddy’s Pub in South Philly and hang out with Dee, Dennis, Mac & Charlie, I want to be adopted by Tim Gunn (sorry Mom & Dad—he can adopt you guys too!).

What do you guys think. Is the list legit or a total crock? (if you got the 3 Men and a Little Lady reference, bonus points for you)

EDIT: I was wrong—my friend Joanmarie (who IS under the age of 70) watches “the Wheel”—I stand corrected 🙂